An alumni, meet after so many years!
What had become of them
in terms of body size, looks, hairline
temperament, success, failure?
When they met, he was glad, with a shade of envy
to note that many were very successful
in positions of vice presidents, presidents, directors
other key roles of power in the corporate sector
It was late in the evening, when they relaxed over drinks
that the misgivings, complaints began to tumble out
"I hardly meet my spouse, a busy executive herself" said one
"Most part of our years of marriage, we ate, eat maid cooked food,” said another
There were also many complaints from accompanying spouses
"Our only son, hardly calls us from the US"
"My daughter rarely brings the grandkids to spend time with us."
"I feel so lonely; miss the children who have flown away"
Back, during college days, he'd been the confidant
the "Go to person" for day to day troubles
This day, it seemed nothing had changed
classmates, even their spouses opened up
expecting, seeking solutions from him
having handled similar life situations pretty well
he did not cringe, felt competent & confident to counsel, guide
The sounding board cum confidant did not disappoint
he sat with them, one to one and advised "Let go"
"your children have their own life now
it's okay for them to fly away, deal with their own life pressures"
"Find hobbies to engage in, keep pets, spend lost time with spouse
Travel, visiting places of interest- Be it temples or holiday resort!"
Times and circumstances have changed
Accepting life and adapting ensures happy living
saying bye bye to rigid norms, expectations
that are no longer valid or practical
is the sure-fire way to a peaceful, happy remaining life!
NB: I composed this poem and recited it during the Seniors Today poets online meet on 31st January 2025
