Sunday 20 January 2019

Wisdom From a casual Interaction

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The other day I had a conversation with a teacher who takes tuition in  Maths and science ( CBSC syllabus) for students of class 9th and 10th. As she wishes to remain anonymous, let us call her Ms Y. The teacher related an anecdote about one of her students. During the tuition class, the student gave an impression of  knowing all the answers to problems/questions asked orally, as she answered in unison with other children . However, in formal tests during tuition or at school , she fared badly. Ms Y said that she advised her student to ask questions and clear doubts. "I am not interested in knowing what you know well. I am interested to find out what are the areas in which you are weak or not clear so that you can be made strong.'  I felt that this was some very sound advice. I asked Ms Y  as to what prompted her to give such advice.

Ms Y is an Msc B Ed  qualified person who had quit teaching after couple of years of working in late eighties, to cater to the challenges of motherhood. However, years later when her son was in 9th class, she started teaching him. A few more students requested to join and thus began a revival of her journey as a teacher. she particularly loved Maths and enjoyed imparting it to students. Ms Y said that the seed of the advice that she gives to students  came from an experience from those early days. In a tuition class as in any class, you get a mix of students who are sharp and others who are weak. Yet success depends on the approach and mental make up of the students.

In that initial class Ms Y  had two weak students, a boy and a girl. The key difference between the nature of the two was that the girl would keep on asking questions about things that she did not understand. At times, it seemed repetitive but  she was getting her doubts cleared and  was not afraid of being thought of as 'ignorant ' or 'slow' before other students. The boy on the other hand remained silent and was reluctant to ask questions. Gradually, the girl began to do better and better as she became sound in the basics. The boy could not make appreciable progress.

As Ms Y related these stories, I was thinking of how important the approach of the teacher is to the success of a student. They can be a source of encouragement and reassurance or one of  discouragement and demotivation. I was reminded of my own Maths teacher in middle school. we had just moved from class V to VI and were scared having to cope with a new teacher and new concepts like sets, algebra etc. The teacher was not thorough in his subject. He used to simply copy down steps on the black board, expect us to copy it down and perhaps by heart them. To cover up his limitation, he used to always dress 'Tip Top' and put on an air of an intellectual. We used to call him "Tippan". At the end of the class, he would ask "Any doubts?. Ask any question". If no one did, he would persuade them- "Go on ask a question".Finally if a child took courage and asked a question, his response would be " you coconut pith holder ( Brainless) you don't know the answer even to this! ".  His strategy was to ensure that in his class, in the long run no one ever said, that they did not understand his teaching.

I was happy to listen to the approach of Ms Y- urging students to come out with all things they have not understood or have difficulty with, so that they can be addressed. Teachers in general, whether at school or in  tuition classes would do well to follow this tip.They need to reassure, and ensure that the children do not have the fear of ridicule so that they may speak up and  freely ask even "silly" questions.The approach and effectiveness of teachers affect not just one project or assignment but the future and success of generations of students! 


Saturday 12 January 2019

Captivating lines from here and there- 25

  • Successful people think about what they want and how to get it most of the time. Unsuccessful people on the other hand, think and talk about what they don't want most of the time and who is to blame for their problems and difficulties- From the book "Million Dollar Habits by Brian Tracy
  • Excellence is improving every day on whatever you are doing.
  • If leaders praise good work and encourage more of the same,then eventually they will be able to relax and let their subordinates do most of the work. All the leaders will have to do is guide them in the proper direction.
  • Happiness is feeling good about yourself- Louise Hay, Author and metaphysical healer   
  • Everywhere we go,we see problems.Anyone with a solution to a problem is an innovator- Dr Annamalai , Scientist and editor,Creativity sphere
  • " I forgive you for not being the way the way I want you to be. I forgive you and set you free". This affirmation sets us free as well- Louise Hay Author and metaphysical healer
  • Get out of your complacency states.Look for inconveniences and find out ways to remove the inconveniences- Dr Annamalai, Scientist & Editor "Creativity sphere
  • The best way to put the 'Law of Giving' into operation is to make a decision that anytime you come into contact with anyone you will give them something - it could be a flower, a compliment or a prayer- Deepak Chopra Author, Seven spiritual Laws of Success
  • By paying attention to the signals of your emotions, you can understand with absolute precision everything you are now living,or you have ever lived- From the book " Ask and it is given"
  • Every subject is really two subjects.Something that you desire and absence of something you desire. Some believe that they are focused on the subject of a healthy body, when actually they are focused on the fear of a sick body.  

Monday 7 January 2019

Statistics

Even as politicians 
tell lies, damned lies
and statistics to back claims
the 'common man' of R.K.Laxman
stares in bewilderment
wondering "what is the fuss about?
Has my life really changed?"  

After all, "The good times" hasn't happened for him
for the farmer, the guy next door
or the one sleeping on the pavement
perhaps the 'good times' are not meant
for 'any citizen' but only for those
who are 'more citizen'!  

NB In the allegorical novel 'Animal Farm', by George Orwell, there is a proclamation by the pigs who control the government that.” All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others." 

"There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics."- Quote popularized in the United States by Mark Twain (among others),who attributed it to the British Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli:

Friday 4 January 2019

'Kedarnath'- A Lovely experience

Soon after I watched the grand flick
on the vast, big screen- I told myself
must write about this alluring  experience
at least for the beautiful locales
set in elevated abundance!

It deserves a "Dekho" though, for a lot more
a very strong message, that you disrespect,
exploit nature, at your own peril and
that greed has to pay a very heavy price
in the long run!

Another important, sublime message
is of the grandeur of 'wholeness'
all of nature- humans, flora & fauna
being part of a grand panorama
albeit divisive voices of vested interests,
screaming,No, you are Hindus, Muslims
Sikhs and Christians!

Lovely acting by the debutante
Sarah Ali Khan, by the ever reliable Sushant Singh Rajput
and shall we say, by every actor
who played parts in the flick
black, white or shades of grey...

Director. co producer,Abhishek Kapoor
camera person, Tushar Ray, other technicians
can all be proud of the breath of fresh air
that the movie emits, radiates
it upholds traditional values of  'unity in diversity'
that India and Indianness stand for!